Olly is actually more useful for a lot of things - its easy to set breakpoints. Just right click, and say "Go To->Expression", and type in the name of the API you want. Make sure to get capitalization right. For example, GetCommandLineA. THen it will take you to the API. Press F2 to set a breakpoint there. ALthough I would recommend setting the breakpoint down a little farther since some programs check for breakpoints (int3 instructions, or "CC" byte) on API's.

Also, in softICE, i've never seen the ATTACH command, must be new for SI 3.0? Anyway, I just use the ADDR command. Just type "ADDR bflite" and you'll now be in its address context and can set breakpoints like you wish.

-Lunar