how to do this in OllyDbg et al?

[boya]

how to set the breakpoint for a menu item (without the couterpart of icon/button) in ollydbg, in the style of button trick?

in another approach, by set bp at certain functions, which of the following should be set?
CheckMenuItem
CheckMenuRadioItem
CreateMenu
CreatePopupMenu
DeleteMenu
DestroyMenu
DrawMenuBar
EnableMenuItem
GetMenu
GetMenuCheckMarkDimensions
GetMenuDefaultItem
GetMenuItemCount
GetMenuItemID
GetMenuItemInfo
GetMenuItemRect
GetMenuState
GetMenuString
GetSubMenu
GetSystemMenu
HiliteMenuItem
InsertMenuItem
IsMenu
LoadMenu
LoadMenuIndirect
MenuItemFromPoint
SetMenu
SetMenuDefaultItem
SetMenuItemBitmaps
SetMenuItemInfo
TrackPopupMenu
TrackPopupMenuEx